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      • Past Event - Exploring After Death Options: What Happens to our Bodily Remains? Feb 19, 2017 2-4pm
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‘We’re here to celebrate life’: County resident captured in HBO documentary about choice in the end-of-life process   News | August 25, 2019
Sam Corey 
Staff Writer 


Dick Shannon (far left) took two years to do everything he wanted to accomplish before dying in May of 2018.

Photo submitted by Will Corbett

On May 1, 2018, Dick Shannon died.
It wasn’t sudden. Shannon was living with a terminal illness, and, at the age of 76, a man who, sources say, took life into his own hands did the same thing with his death on that Tuesday morning.

Surrounded by loved ones and with his wife Deleaua Shannon by his side, Dick drank a drug cocktail that ended his life.

Prior to this, Shannon had planned the last bits of his life. He visited family members around the country, bought a red Tesla, built his own coffin with his son-in-law and held a celebration of life ceremony with friends and family members. But maybe most unique about Shannon’s last day on Earth was the presence of a production team standing in the room with him. Shannon was being filmed by HBO.

The man and his family who live in Nevada County are part of a documentary called “Alternate Endings: Six new ways to die in America.” The film is about dying individuals and their families taking the dying and death process into their control, determining how the end of life should be.
It highlighted living wakes, the construction of a coral reef with remains from a dead individual, a green burial and more.
The documentary first aired Aug. 14.

ADVOCATING FOR THE DYING
In 2016, the End of Life Option Act was signed into law in California. The law allows some terminally ill adults to request medicine to peacefully end their lives. The Shannons were advocating for the bill’s passage prior to Dick’s diagnosis.
“Both of my parents felt strongly that dying should be a personal choice,” said Desirae Corbett, Shannon’s daughter.
In May of 2016 — one month before the bill’s enactment — Shannon received a six-month terminal diagnosis, said Will Corbett, Shannon’s son-in-law. It was a rare form of cancer with no known treatment, and would eventually lead to internal suffocation.
Shannon had tried to make intentional choices about everything else in his life, said Will. His dying and death were no different.
“When death became part of our lives, we were able to talk about it,” said Will.
Death Doula and Co-Founder of Full Circle of Living & Dying Akhila Murphy said the family didn’t shy away from anything when they called her to do an in-home consultation.
“They were open in the conversation about his end of life,” she said.
It was the Full Circle organization, said Murphy, that put HBO in touch with Shannon.
Although the family was only captured for about 15 minutes in the documentary, “They were told (HBO) really could have made a whole film about the Shannons,” said Murphy.
Murphy thought the family brave for putting themselves on camera during such intimate moments.

THE DYING PROCESS
After his diagnosis, Shannon lived the next two years of his life under his own direction.
“‘You have a choice,’” he told his son-in-law before he died about the end-of-life process, “‘and you should at least investigate that choice.’”
An electrical engineer, Shannon signed up to buy a model 3 Tesla, said Will. With a short time to live, Tesla went out of their way to sell him the car.
“Within a week, Tesla was calling him and saying they want to get you your car now,” said Will. Today, Shannon’s son drives the electric vehicle almost every day.

Will and his father-in-law did many projects over the years, he said. They maintained a relationship partially around building things. Their final project was building Shannon’s final resting place.
“It was amazing, it was surreal, it was sad,” said Will. “It was everything you can possibly imagine.”
Shannon held a celebration-of-life ceremony. He and others are depicted exploring a range of emotions.
“We’re here to celebrate life,” Shannon said in the film. “All of it, but especially the end. My end.”
Shannon ended his life in his Wolf Creek Lodge apartment.
His wife Deleaua opted for a home funeral. Upon his death, her husband laid in the apartment for three days during which the family had time to say goodbye and honor their loved one.

SOFTENING DEATH
Will worked as a firefighter for 30 years, he said, and experienced death on many occasions. It was his father-in-law’s death, however, that changed his perspective.
“This sort of washed some of the demons that I had away,” he said.
His wife agreed. It gave her a softer interpretation of dying.
“People are afraid to die and people don’t need to be,” she said.
Mostly, Will said it was the family’s willingness to look death in the face, openly and earnestly, that made the difficult process more complex and beautiful.
“By the time the death comes around, you’ve grieved for two years already,” he said.“It’s so much harder when you have that initial shock.”
Today, Will said he’s become a quasi-advocate for dying with dignity, providing some terminally ill individuals the option to control their dying.
His wife changed too. Her father’s death altered how she lives her life.
“It’s another reminder that life is precious,” she said. “Small things don’t really matter.”
Toward the end of the Shannon family’s experience in the film, a quote from philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche flashed across the screen.
“To die proudly when it is no longer possible to live proudly. Death of one’s own free choice, death at the proper time, with a clear head and with joyfulness, consummated in the midst of children and witnesses: so that an actual leave-taking is possible while he who is leaving is still there.”
To contact Staff Writer Sam Corey, email scorey@theunion.com or call 530-477-4219

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      • Akhila Murphy, Founding Director, End-of-Life Doula, Death Care Midwife
      • Carolyn Seyler, Co-Chair President
      • Rosie Mariani, Board Treasurer
      • Mary Good, End-of-Life Doula, Secretary of the Board
      • Amanda Kenney, Death-Care Midwife, Board Director
      • Mary Jo Curtin, Board Director
    • FCLD Core Circle Volunteer Team >
      • Bonnie McKeegan, LCSW, Past Vice President Board Director
      • Martha Turner, Midwifery, Past President
      • Linda More, End-of-Life Doula, Past Board Director
      • Donna Peizer, Past Treasurer
      • Nandi Szabo, Co-Founder
      • Nancy Parraz, Death Care Midwife
      • Sushila Mertens, End-of-Life Doula >
        • Sushila Mertens, End-of-Life Doula, Outstanding Volunteer of the Year!
        • Spotlight Sushila Mertens
      • Rebecca Sengolu
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      • Home Funeral Article by Jerrigrace Lyons
  • In-Home Funeral Guidance
    • Know your rights. Home death care is legal.
    • Home Death Care in California >
      • Home Funeral Paperwork
    • CALIFORNIA DEATH CERTIFICATE Instructions
    • Tattoo Preservation after Death
    • Death Care >
      • Sacred Death Care
    • What is "Lying in Honor?"
    • Symbolism of our LOGO
    • Donate Here
    • Pet Funeral >
      • Pet Euthanasia in the Home
    • Death Certificate Worksheet >
      • Nevada County-File Your Own Paperwork for Death Certificate - Vital Records Office
    • Video: A Conversation about After Death Care
  • End-of-Life Care Options
    • Pregnancy and Infant Loss >
      • Support group: Pregnancy and Infant Loss
      • Cuddle Cot 2021
    • Advance Directives, Dementia, Covid-19, Five Wishes
    • End-of-Life Doula
    • California End of Life Option Act (MAID)
    • VSED: Voluntarily Stopping Eating & Drinking
    • Sacred Bridges, Local End-of-Life Caregivers
    • Remembrances
    • Contributions
    • Testimonials
    • Physician Support: Medical Aid in Dying
  • Green Burial
    • History of Natural Green Burial, Cherokee Cemetery, Nevada County >
      • Green Burial Santa Monica 2016
      • Green Burial Video from GBC
    • Natural Organic Reduction -Composting Human Remains >
      • Presentation: Natural Organic Reduction + YouTube link
    • Natural Organic Reduction Amigo Bob's story
    • Rules for Scattering Ashes
    • Find A Grave (website)
    • Aquamation: Water Cremation >
      • Desmond Tutu: Aquamation
    • Cremation- Not so Environmentally Friendly!
  • Events & News
    • Upcoming Educational Series MAR 14, 2023: AS YOU WISH: Creating a Beautiful End-of-Life
    • Upcoming March 16, 2023 Death Conversations Event
    • Presentation April 30, 2023 In-Home Death Care
    • Past event Aquamation Presentation Jan. 18, 2023 link to recording
    • Past Death Conversations Event Nov. 17, 2022
    • Past Film Event: Jack Has a Plan Aug. 2022
    • LA TIMES Article about Lawsuit Aug. 2022
    • Article: Death Doula Lawsuit Dec. 2021 >
      • California Death Doulas Fight
      • Death Doulas C&C Article Nov. 2021
    • Article: Pregnancy Loss Conversations Feb, 2022
    • Past Event June 24, 2022 Presentation Organ and Tissue donation
    • Past Event Apr. 28, 2022 After-death Care presentation
    • PAST March 26, 2022 Cemetery Field Trip
    • Past Event March 17, 2022 Death Conversations- Breaking the silence
    • Past Event Jan 20, 2022 Death Conversations- Breaking the silence
    • Review: 2021 City of Hope, End:0f-Life Symposium December
    • PAST EVENTS 2021 >
      • Presentation Dec. 9th : "There's No Place Like Home." Home funeral Basics
      • Past Event: Nov. 2021- Medical Aid-in-Dying Update
      • Past Event: Natural Organic Reduction - Register
      • Past Events 2021 : June 18 -Field trip to Cherokee Cemetery
    • Newsletters
    • KVMR Podcasts: Featuring End-of-LIfe Doulas
    • PUBLISHED ARTICLES >
      • Article from The Order of the Good Death
      • Article: California's End-of-LIfe Option Act
      • Article Amigo Bob -Natural Organic Reduction Human Composting
      • April 2020 Ventilators in times of COVID-19
      • Union Article Caring Cradle Sept 2019
      • Giving Back After Tragedy, September 2019 The Union
      • Article The Union May 2019 New nonprofit
      • Article The Union August 2019 HBO Documentary
      • Choosing When to Die
      • Home Funeral Visitation
    • PAST EVENTS 2019/20 >
      • Past Event Oct 7 & 8, 2020 Holding Space for Pregnancy Loss
      • Death & Grieving around Corona Virus March 26, 2020
      • Past Event: Jan 26, 2020 Your Life, Your Choice, Your Plan
      • End-of-Life Doula Training with Inspired Endings - Oct 2019
      • June 9, 2019 Short Film & Death Conversation
      • Mar, Apr, May 2019
      • SEPT 2019 EVENT: Advance Directives + Dementia Directive
    • 2018 Past Events >
      • A Matter of Life & Death: Workshop Series Sept. 22, 2018
      • Nandi's Cancer Support Group September-October 2018
      • Past Events: 2018
      • Event May 20, 2018- Creating a Death Care Plan: Exploring Unconventional Options
      • Event: July 22, 2018 Death Cafe
    • 2017 PAST Events: August 27th -Understanding California's End-of-LIfe Option Act >
      • Deathwalker Training with Zenith Virago Sept 2017
      • Past Event: Film screening: Zen & the Art of Dying August 13, 2017
      • PAST Event: Film screening: Zen and the Art of Dying June 11, 2017
      • Past Event: Death Salon, A Gathering of Community to Discuss Death -MAR 26
      • Past Event - Exploring After Death Options: What Happens to our Bodily Remains? Feb 19, 2017 2-4pm
      • Going Out Green: Learn about Eco-friendly Home Funerals and Green Burial Cemetery JAN. 8, 2017
      • International Death Doula Training 2017
    • 2016 Events Planning Your Own Send-off May 1, 2016 >
      • Stephen Jenkinson Comes to NC March 14, 2016
      • Education, Presentations, Death Cafe
      • Event: Sunday Aug 28 2-4pm Home Funerals & Green Burial
    • EARLY YEARS 2013-2015 EVENTS
  • Resources
    • MAiD/California End of Life Option Act + Update SB 380 >
      • Links for California's End-of-Life Option Act
    • Bereavement Support in Nevada County >
      • Bereavement support Hospice of the Foothills, Nevada County
      • Grief Support: Jemma Skye Champeau
    • Advance Directives California + Dementia
    • Hospice of the Foothills, Nevada County
    • Senior Outreach Services, Nevada County
    • One Source Empowering Caregivers
    • Pregnancy and Infant Loss >
      • Cuddle Cot 2021
      • Union Article Caring Cradle 2019
    • Support group: Pregnancy and Infant Loss
    • End-of-Life Plan of Care
    • American Clinicians Academy on Medical Aid in Dying >
      • ACAMAID: Mixing medications
    • Physicians & Local Pharmacy >
      • Dr. Stephen Banister, Nevada County
    • VSED: Voluntarily Stopping Eating & Drinking >
      • Supporting a Loved One at End of Life
    • Body / Organ Donation
    • Threshold Choir
    • Resources and Links
    • People in the Death Trade & Training
    • Holding Space
  • FAQ
  • Companions for Pregnancy Loss
    • Cuddle Cot 2021
  • Death Related YouTube
  • Beauty of EOL Study
  • JOIN OUR TEAM
  • Bardo, Buddhism and the Art of Dying
  • Accomplishments
  • Remembrance donation
  • Kids Sit Vigil with their Granny
  • Sharon's End-of-life days
  • Nearing Death Awareness
  • After-Death Care of my Mom by Akhiila Murphy
  • Archive Video FCLD Collective
  • A Remembrance Gathering for Mom?
  • Marina Bokelman Legacy
  • Register for Aguamation